The new job pays $50k extra but it's a 2 hour commute each way, twice a week. I sleep closer to the office in the middle of the week. Is more money worth the life it costs?
I don't know what I don't know
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My side project has made more than my salary for some months now. It could actually be a company. I'm going all in, that part I've decided. But, I don't know what I don't know…
I'm the only one who'd say it
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My best friend asked me to be her maid of honor, but the guy she is marrying is a scumbag. I'm the only one who'd say it. Do I say it??
What if she's onto something
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My fifteen-year-old is smart but checked out of school. Not failing, just coasting. She makes videos and the following is actually growing. What if she's onto something… but I am still panicking.
Quick questions
I'm arguing my first court case and don't know what I'm underestimating.
Career3perspectives
I have ten minutes to pitch someone who could completely change my business.
Business4perspectives
I love my partner but I'm not sure we should get married
Relationships6perspectives
What do you wish you knew before having your first child?
Family7perspectives
How do I get in the best shape of my life without making fitness my personality?
Health6perspectives
I'm applying to college and don't know which schools I'd actually be happiest at.
Lenny on breaking into product management“A few paths actually work. The safest is transitioning internally, partnering closely with a PM until you can make the case. The second is joining an early-stage startup where everyone does everything. Regardless of path, become the person who deeply understands the customer and can translate that into product insight.”
Roelof on what separates enduring companies from others“The enduring ones are willing to have what I call multiple founding moments. We have a wall at Sequoia that says, 'We're only as good as our next investment.' You have to stay paranoid. Never get crater-lazy.”
Céline on protecting your health in a noisy information world“I protect my health the same way I protect my patients: by curating my information diet the way I curate my food. I go to the source, I follow people who've been right before and correct themselves when the evidence changes, and I stay open to changing my mind. Certainty that cannot bend is not strength; it is a vulnerability.”
Sam on breaking into the music industry“You don't need permission anymore. You don't need a label, a fancy studio, or someone's approval to make music. With determination and a laptop, you can create chart-topping material. Forget about being discovered. Focus on becoming so good they can't ignore you. Start with 100 true fans and those 100 will bring you 1,000 more.”
Moses on making it to the top when you started with nothing“I had love for the game, parents who kept me grounded, and a city that taught me how to compete. What kept me going was consistency and curiosity. You control what you can control, stack good days, and let the game reward you when it's time.”
John on fighting back with five months of runway left“Survival brings clarity. The mission kept us going. So many smart people wrote us off. When you have a group of talented people who care deeply about what they're working on, you can accomplish almost anything.”
Nir on the science of living longer“To delay the biology of aging, we don't prevent just one disease, we prevent many of them. We used to think each age-related disease was separate, but they share common roots. Longevity becomes a side effect of staying healthy longer.”
Deena on raising venture money as an underestimated founder“Do your homework on who you're pitching. Most founders spray and pray, but that wastes everyone's time. And bring your full self to the conversation. The intersectional, the immigrant, the nontraditional founder, those backgrounds are not weaknesses. They're edges. The data shows diverse founding teams build better businesses. But you have to own it.”
Jeffrey on why treating symptoms is the wrong place to start“Symptoms are late signals, not first causes. In chronic illness the biology starts drifting years before a diagnosis. If you start at the symptom, you are downstream. You may mute the alarm without finding the fire. The body is a network, so ask what shifted in the person's story and physiology that made the symptom possible, then address that.”
Stanley on turning a scrappy experiment into a public company“We saw a macaroon shop in Palo Alto with orders they couldn't fulfill, so we built a static HTML site with a phone number and took orders by hand. The scrappy part isn't a phase you graduate from; it's a discipline. You automate after you understand the problem deeply, not before. Change everything except the mission if the data says so.”
Niraj on using breathwork to change your physical state“Breathing is the only autonomic function you can consciously control. It's a direct line to your nervous system. When you exhale, your parasympathetic system engages and your heart rate comes down. A few minutes of rhythmic breathing is enough to pull yourself out of stress and back into your center.”